In her TEDx talk “Style to Feel, Not to Please,” fashion and beauty content creator Kyra Nayda explores the profound connection between personal style and self-perception. She emphasizes the idea that what we wear isn’t just a superficial choice; it significantly affects our mood and interactions. Drawing on theories like “dopamine dressing”—where clothing we love releases feel-good hormones—Kyra argues that personal style is essentially a language of communication, shaping how we express ourselves and how we’re perceived by others.
Using examples from her research and even referencing Steve Jobs’ iconic wardrobe choices, she illustrates how our clothing choices can reflect our individuality and decision-making processes. Style, she asserts, should transcend societal expectations, focusing instead on how outfits make us feel. Kyra’s engaging talk encourages listeners to prioritize their personal preferences and emotions when dressing, advocating for a wardrobe that truly resonates with one’s identity. Ultimately, she inspires the audience to create a capsule wardrobe that mirrors their authentic selves, setting a positive tone for each day.
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This talk explores how personal style isn’t just about looking good or getting compliments. It can actually be a way to show self respect, express who we really are, and even help us heal on the inside. In a world where beauty standards are often set by other people, this session reminds us that taking care of how we look isn’t always about trying to impress others. Sometimes, it’s just a simple, everyday way of honoring how we feel, who we are, and how we want to show up in the world. Kyra Nayda is a fashion, beauty, and lifestyle content creator who merges creative design with digital storytelling. A Marketing graduate from Binus University, she built her brand through fashion, sewing, and costume design, while serving as a digital entertainment executive. Kyra’s mission is to inspire others to express themselves authentically—leveraging creativity, entrepreneurship, and social media to reshape how fashion and content intersect in everyday life. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Video “Style to Feel, Not to Please | Kyra Nayda | TEDxTSM” was uploaded on 10/13/2025 to Youtube Channel TEDx Talks