The art and science of failing well
The Art and Science of Failing Well: Embracing Mistakes for Growth
Failure is often seen as a setback, but in this enlightening video, experts Tim Harford, Tal Ben-Shahar, and Robert Sutton explore how it can be the foundation of success. The central theme is that failure is inevitable, yet our responses to it are what define our journey. Emphasizing the importance of reframing failure as valuable information rather than a personal indictment, the panel challenges the stigma surrounding mistakes.
The video presents three distinct responses to failure: the “forgive and forget” method, the “Silicon Valley standard,” and the most effective approach of “forgive and remember.” While the first two methods lack accountability and encourage a fear of failure, “forgive and remember” fosters psychological safety, enabling organizations to learn from missteps.
Through personal anecdotes and well-known examples like Thomas Edison, the speakers argue that embracing our failures can lead to resilience, creativity, and ultimately, success. By cultivating an environment where mistakes are viewed as learning opportunities, both individuals and organizations can unlock their potential. If we shift our perspective on failure, we learn not just to survive it, but to thrive because of it.
Join the conversation on how to transform failure into a powerful learning tool and discover the art of failing well.
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Journalist Tim Harford, PhD, psychologist Tal Ben-Shahar, PhD, and organizational behavior expert Robert Sutton, PhD, reveal how failure can become the foundation of success when it’s examined and built upon. Reframing failure as information, rather than a personal setback, is what sets productive thinkers apart.
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First comment 😊😊
Do as Edison does, steal inventions and kill elephants
, "I haven't failed 1,000 times; I've just discovered 1,000 ways that don't work," – Thomas Edison
'Success' works best when you frame the concept in such a way as to define it for oneself, so that you have an accounting, a road map of what is best for you. External comparison brings undue uncertainty, sometimes the contagion of envy that can cloud your judgment, even ruin relationships.
"It's time to take chances, make mistakes, and get messy!" – Ms. Frizzle, The Magic School Bus
Well, this made me feel better.
“Fail forwards in a society that will punish you from cradle to grave about failing – yes that’s the way”
Quote – me
I like mantra: If you have failed and not try to adjust it you have failed twice. And the second samurai’s rule: there is no mistake but only the sign in order to change your way.
If I take the credit for 3 of your works, for the last 15 years and gave it to a black guy, let's say, the lisan Al Gaib, will you guys call yourself a failure, I wander 🤔
You know what fail means in university? – loosing scholarship and going back to home country. Easy to say eh
Such idiotic AI representation of every little thing they say 🤦♀🤦♀🤦♀
CLOSES EYES more often to shift ATTENTION to TRIAL and ERROR PATIENCE
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CLOSE EYES and gain more CONTROL over SCREEN ADDICTION, as well
(Thanks, but I would add this MEDITATIVE practice and see what happens)
true failure only happens when you give up. instead of seeing it as a fail, i prefer to think of these as falls. when you fall, all you have to do is get up, dust yourself off, and keep going.
They forgot one important aspect – to define what failure really is – is it when I give up on my new business completely? or when I don't quit yet fail daily with achieving the KPI's?
We may need to recreate to create to procreate
I will use this as a personal mantra.
I don't care about and avoid any person's own success story or their "career".
I need to find the way that works for me. Holding that beleif is proof I was made the way I am by the universe/god for a pecific purpose.
As it is for everyone, you are born who you are fortunate or not physically, because the universe balanced the damage you would do to others in your liftime, it gave you weaknesses to limit the damage.
With apologies to Kipling:
“If you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you,
But make allowance for their doubting too;
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don’t deal in lies,
Or being hated, don’t give way to hating,
And yet don’t look too good, nor talk too wise:
…
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same”
Then
“By the livin’ Gawd that made you,
You’re a better man than I am, Gunga Din!” 😁
Let's not forget Edison was also a person who employed many people to work for him so he could claim their ideas too.
the insistence of never being wrong or making a mistake by the business culture in the USA is a fundamental defect in our business culture. This defect is most prevalent in the executive ranks of companies. This creates false realities, double speak, and a forcing function for dishonesty, blame games, and all the anti-collaborative cultural elements so prevalent in business.
More like the Art and Science of Stealing other's invention 😂
Success is like pregnancy. Everyone congratulates you. But nobody knows how many times you were screwed.
It's a big shame that society tells you that failure is unacceptable. How the hell do kids stand a chance when they're being lied to all the time!
An even more intriguing question is; How the hell do some kids still succeed despite being lied to by society their whole lives?!
How did I know the Edison example was going to be brought up because his "failure to success" story is a common trope and the truth of his "success" is rarely told thoroughly and honestly.
I realize there's only so much you can say about failure in 8 minutes but this puts it in a nice neat box with a self help feel good bow. Failure can't be so easily defined and treated like a pendulum. The "learn to love failure" cheer has become pretty popular among hustle bros who usually have something useless to sell you.
I fell down hard on my dirt bike recently and separated a few of my ribs to the Diaphragm. I'm 66 now and I've rode dirt bikes all my life an do not fall down. I was looking to far down the trail and ran over a round rock and took out my front end. It was a failure that has caused me to second guess if I'm to old now. No, I'm still going to ride just learn from the failure.
There is no hospital that forgives and remembers unless it’s Drs and admins. For clinical and support staff it’s blame and destroy before you investigate. Protect the egos that save lives and make them gods.
im so shite that i even fail to fail properly
Failure is part of the training!
My YouTube channel is failing lol
Failure feels personal because we confuse the mistake with our identity, but they are not the same thing. When you can separate who you are from what happened, you create space for growth instead of shame. The insight in this conversation is such a powerful reminder that failure is information, not a verdict. When we learn to “forgive and remember,” we turn setbacks into motivation to grow and keep moving forward. 💖
The first thing to do if you want success is double your failure rate. Learn and move towards your goal.