In the heartfelt video “My Kids Watched Me Transition From Mom to Dad,” Ray shares his transformative journey from being a lesbian mom to becoming a trans dad. With a background of feeling misaligned with his assigned gender, Ray’s transition began after he had two children, Valon and Vila, with his wife Alyssa. They openly discussed the changes ahead, making it clear that Ray would now embrace the role of a dad. His children’s immediate acceptance was heartwarming, highlighting their innocence and love.
As Ray embarked on his journey, he faced both support and backlash, particularly through social media, where some accused him of “brainwashing” his kids. Despite the negativity that often surrounds discussions of gender identity, Ray emphasizes the joys of parenting and the importance of education over ignorance. The shared experience with family and friends reveals the complexities of his transition, but also the abiding love that binds them together. Through candid conversations and a commitment to living authentically, Ray demonstrates that family thrives on understanding, love, and acceptance, hoping for a future with less negativity.
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Video “My Kids Watched Me Transition From Mom To Dad | MY EXTRAORDINARY FAMILY” was uploaded on 11/17/2025 to Youtube Channel truly