In the TEDx talk “The Bravest Step Isn’t Forward — It’s Back,” Dandan Chen challenges conventional notions of success and perfection. Discussing the pressure we put on ourselves to constantly move forward, Chen highlights a striking double standard: while we accept that technology is perpetually evolving and imperfect, we often demand flawless performance from ourselves. Sharing her own journey from a demanding leadership role to rediscovering her passions, she illustrates the yearnings for personal fulfillment and authenticity that can arise from stepping back.
Chen recounts a pivotal moment when her son sought her company, prompting her to reassess her priorities. This reflection led her to embrace the idea that taking a step back can be a courageous decision that allows for growth and self-discovery. By prioritizing inner peace over external expectations, she inspires listeners to question societal pressures and recognize that life is not a race. Ultimately, she emphasizes that embracing imperfection and change can lead to a more fulfilling and authentic existence.
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Jennie Chen shares a sincere journey that belongs uniquely to her. Her story reminds us that stepping back is not a failure—it is often the way to move closer to what truly matters. There is no final “perfect version” of life; we are always allowed to update, adjust, and grow. Jennie Chen is a Chinese teacher at KCIS who values quiet reflection, reading, and travel. She constantly challenges herself to grow through new experiences. Her personal journey has taught her that true courage often means consciously stepping back—embracing our “work in progress” state, listening to our inner voice, and choosing paths that align with our deepest values. In her talk, she will share why the bravest step isn’t always forward, but sometimes back. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Video “The Bravest Step Isn’t Forward-It’s Back | Dandan Chen | TEDxWuxi DSAS Youth” was uploaded on 10/13/2025 to Youtube Channel TEDx Talks