In the thought-provoking TEDx talk titled “Why EQ Matters More than IQ,” Ivanka Shira challenges traditional notions of intelligence, emphasizing that emotional intelligence (EQ) often holds far greater significance than IQ. Reflecting on her experiences growing up, Shira recalls feeling inadequate compared to high-achieving peers, only to discover the profound impact of nurturing one’s emotional skills. Drawing from personal anecdotes, including a life lesson from her aunt about the power of kindness, she illustrates how genuine connections foster empathy and compassion.
Shira highlights that while grades and IQ may open doors, it’s emotional intelligence that keeps individuals thriving in social environments. Research cited in her talk indicates that high EQ correlates with greater career success and interpersonal relationships. By sharing practical examples of emotional awareness in everyday situations—from supporting a friend in distress to valuing quieter voices—Shira shows that real strength lies in listening and understanding others.
Ultimately, Shira advocates for a world where compassion is prioritized over mere academic prowess, urging viewers to appreciate the true essence of being human: valuing how we make others feel.
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“Emotional intelligence (EQ) is the ability to understand, manage, and express emotions—both our own and other’s. Unlike IQ, which measures knowledge and logic, EQ shapes empathy, kindness, and relationships, making it important for success, resilience, and human connection in today’s world.
” Ivanka Dalbot Shira is an 18-year-old senior student at Kodaikanal International School. She serves as the Vice President of the KIS Student Council and is the Captain of the Volleyball Team, reflecting her leadership both on and off the court. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Video “Why EQ matters more than IQ | Ivanka Shira | TEDxKodaikanal International School Youth” was uploaded on 10/13/2025 to Youtube Channel TEDx Talks