The alarm bells are sounding for young men. Will we listen? | Richard Reeves
The Alarm Bells Are Sounding for Young Men: Will We Listen? | Richard Reeves – Synopsis
In a thought-provoking analysis, Richard Reeves sheds light on the struggles faced by young men today—a topic often met with hurried judgments and blame. Reeves critiques the societal tendency to dismiss young men’s challenges with phrases like “just get off the sofa,” arguing that this mindset ignores deeper, systemic issues. He portrays many young men as “lost,” grappling with conflicting messages about masculinity, purpose, and societal expectations.
Highlighting alarming statistics, Reeves points out a significant rise in drug-related deaths and mental health crises among young men, emphasizing that suicide rates have risen sharply among this demographic since 2010. He challenges the notion that young men are simply irresponsible, attributing their struggles to long-standing economic shifts and the diminishing presence of male role models, particularly in education and mental health fields.
Reeves advocates for a holistic approach, urging society to acknowledge and address the unique challenges young men face. He calls for increased male representation in professions like teaching and counseling, promoting the importance of mentorship, and fostering environments where young men feel seen, supported, and empowered. As conversations continue about gender, Reeves insists that we must ensure they encompass the complexities of masculinity and the urgent needs of young men in modern society.
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“It’s certainly clear that the issues of boys and men haven’t gone away in the last few years. If anything, they’re getting even more attention, which is good when it’s the right kind of attention.”
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The conversation around masculinity is a political battlefield, devolving into extreme caricaturization: uncritical celebration or outright demonization. Where does the nuance of this discussion live?
Richard Reeves argues that this binary leaves out the real story: how changing economies, shifting cultural expectations, and the absence of strong male role models have left many young men without a clear path forward.
0:00 Blaming young men
1:24 Rethinking how we talk about masculinity
2:45 The rise in male deaths from drugs
3:17 The male rate of suicide
4:14 Male representation in different professions
6:10 Men and purpose
6:52 Median annual earnings of men
8:54 Men and the “get rich quick” scheme
10:31 Online gambling addiction
12:15 What does non-toxic masculinity look like?
13:17 Policy for young males
14:46 Male support systems
19:08 GPA distribution amongst boys and girls
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About Richard Reeves:
Richard V. Reeves is a senior fellow at the Brookings Institution, where he directs the Future of the Middle Class Initiative and co-directs the Center on Children and Families. His Brookings research focuses on the middle class, inequality and social mobility.
Richard writes for a wide range of publications, including the New York Times, Guardian, National Affairs, The Atlantic, Democracy Journal, and Wall Street Journal. He is the author of Dream Hoarders (Brookings Institution Press, 2017), and John Stuart Mill – Victorian Firebrand (Atlantic Books, 2007), an intellectual biography of the British liberal philosopher and politician.
Dream Hoarders was named a Book of the Year by The Economist, a Political Book of the Year by The Observer, and was shortlisted for the Goddard Riverside Stephan Russo Book Prize for Social Justice. In September 2017, Politico magazine named Richard one of the top 50 thinkers in the U.S. for his work on class and inequality.
A Brit-American, Richard was director of strategy to the UK’s Deputy Prime Minister from 2010 to 2012. Other previous roles include director of Demos, the London-based political think-tank; social affairs editor of the Observer; principal policy advisor to the Minister for Welfare Reform, and research fellow at the Institute for Public Policy Research. Richard is also a former European Business Speaker of the Year and has a BA from Oxford University and a PhD from Warwick University.
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As a man I disagree. For centuries men had the privileges (and they still have them… as a extreme sample, look Afghan society, anyway). Then, now, they start to see a tiny "improvement" in females … and now they are "lost". Sorry, seems like a kind of depression for loosing our privileges. Once that said, men should not be neglected … but from that to be the victims now… I don*t "buy" it. Maybe, that is USA thing…. I see that from Europe perspective.
The problem with these fake care about young men is bc they will share out of context or one sided part of Andrew Tate. Thats why these people can never be role model for young men, bc we can clearly see WHAT ARE YOU DOING!
Not for me or my life. Its the ones who focus too much on it or were trapped in it
The book ‘Iron John’ by Robert Bly, covers ALLL what is it about men in this modern age.
Calhoun's mice utopia experiments. We're in the stage of the "beautiful ones", just before the population collapses to 0.
Taking away safe spaces & groups away from boys like Boy Scouts, now co-ed 'Scouting America' is just one example of how society has unraveled because of feminists views.
Why are there Women's hospitals but no "Men's hospitals" even when life expectancy for men is half a decade less than women's?
Men are far more likely to die in wars, for example like Margaret Thatcher's Falkland Islands war, but are more likely to be homeless or commit suicide than women.
Woman's shelters out number men's shelters by multiple orders of magnitude, while 2 out of 5 of men in relationships have experienced intimate partner violence. 9 times out of 10 women get custody of kids when couples separate, but men are 7 times more likely to owe alimony.
Men are more likely to receive harsher penalities than women for similar crimes. Men are 10 times more likely to have work place fatalities than women because men tend to work at more dangerous professions, but all we ever hear about is 'pay equality' or 'gender pay gap'…the list goes on and on and on…
This story is going to give is nothing more than pity nothing will change, suffer in silence as always have. The character of man artful and enduring is often paired with some of that pain in search for the depths of its own character.
We are in the 'proteïne' age, men are now equaliy part of the whole 'you should look like this' marketing as women were already for decades
This is an important video and topic, but equally it's so sad the amount of times he needed to put in disclaimers and hedges just to say boys need to not feel ashamed to be aspirational and risk-seeking again.
When rugged individualism is promoted in an environment of accelerating inequality and politicised culture wars, its not difficult to see that shame is turned inwards.
women need to raise their standards and stop dating men who arent wealthy
Men are not becoming teachers and therapists by choice because they don't pay well. This guy presents it like some conspiracy to shut men out of those professions when the opposite is true.
Please drop the cringe music and let the man talk – impossible to watch
So we finally agree that equality is what we are looking for?
What a great video, fantastic
Everyone else in society except young men needs to change.
It won’t happen.
Society collapses.
QED
Curious how an Englishman becomes president of something in America let alone this issue.
Sir, you're on the verge of getting it.
You just need to ditch the Third Wave Feminism nonsense.
It's blinding you to cause of the effects you're seeing.
Equal representation at the cost of “merit”, is the problem. I have seen numerous examples around me where extremely competent and deserving men were discriminated against for “equal” representation! This is neither sustainable nor beneficial to anyone involved.
Pack up women we should I get back to being house wives barefoot and pregnant so these guys can have a chance again
How do you slow population growth without anyone even realising it? Empower women (even to the point of absurdity) but say it's about equality.
the major problem is that u dont understand cultura is higjly dependent on genectics. Masculity and femininity are genetic. U want both gender equal whten they are completly different. U just stupid
I think that because we have replaced spirituality with consumerism, we now have many more people who feel unworthy, worthless, and inadequate, just because they’re failing at a game that has been rigged against them from the beginning. Money and lack of it is devastating when people depend on it for everything.
Imagine if men start to make noise and bother feminists do
Theres never going to be a perfect state for this theres never going to be a solution its going to
be forever subject of discussion so it become of politics future politicians will use this forever subject like others, for traction and simultaneusly fuel the divide some more and then tribes will be clearer and these tribes new dynamics will then shape the identity of the future cultures.
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Omg when will this channel shut up about young men?